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Confession – the one area of my life that is not working

I have a vulnerable confession to make.

You might see me as a woman that has it all…
an amazing husband and baby, a thriving business,
a dream life in california.

But, there’s one area of my life that I let slide.
I didn’t even realize I was settling.

But I realized this week that I had gotten so good
at making the best of a situation
and loving myself where I’m at,
that it actually almost had me settle
for less than I desire
and less than I deserve.
Click HERE to watch the short video I made to hear more.

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I’m sharing this with you becuase it’s TIME
for women to stop settling.

And to claim what they deserve.
In love and in all other ares of life.

I’m sure you’ll be able to relate.

And, after you watch the video,
go to The Love Works Life facebook group
to share where you’ve been settling
and where you’re going to boldly CLAIM
to actually stop settling and have it all.

xo,
Nicole

PS: My first facebook LIVE for #GetHot will be tomorrow at 5:30 AM!
Visit my facebook page then to  join me and I’m going to be sharing
HOW to get committed to a goal and stop settling.
And I’ll share more of my personal journey with you.
It’s EARLY in the morning for me, so you’ll see me in a baseball cap
and my pj’s…we’ll get close!

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Open If You Want to Be A Mom 

This week a client of mine messaged me in a tailspin
because she had read another dating coach’s email
which basically tried to use a massive amount of fear
to scare women into the fact that they biologically and statistically
must meet their man in their early 30s if they want to have kids.
(and this coach is a Man, by the way…)

And, I was pissed that this fear-based message is out there
and influencing women like my my client, who is 36, and started to freak out
feeling like maybe she missed her chance.

So today, on Mother’s Day
I wanted to send a message of FAITH, not fear
for anyone in my community
that wants to be a mom
and is trying to meet the man first to get to their dream of creating a family.

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My Child Chose Me
by Nicole Moore

I’ve never had the experience of so badly wanting a child
and not being able to have one
because of lack of a man in my life
or my body or anything like that.

My child came to me.
And, he even let me know he was coming
before I was ready.

When I was 30.5 years old,
I was meditating
and, out of the blue,
I heard a voice say
“you’re going to have a baby when you’re 32 so get prepared”.

My eyes opened in shock and disbelief.

You see, at the time, I was completely single
and just couldn’t see how meeting a man and having a baby
could happen in such a short timeframe.

But, shocked as I was by that voice,
some part of me listened.
And, I did begin to prepare for the possibility of a baby
in my own ways.

Subconsciously, it drove me to work harder in my business
and make sure I got it to the place of more than enough.

I did a LOT of healing work on my wounded inner child
so that I could be healed
and be the most loving mom if I ever go the chance.

And, I dated.
Not in an “I need to find my husband and baby daddy” kind of way.

But intentionally.
Not with a eye just for “hotness” which honestly used to be my primary focus
but for substance.
I looked for a man who was centered, full of integrity
and who most of all had a truly loving heart.

And, I payed attention.
Like when a dating coach who I had interviewed for a project
told me randomly, just after I had moved to San Diego,
that I should be with a 36 year old man,
I listened.
And said yes to every single 36 year old that asked me out.

And, while swiping on Tinder one day in May
I saw a man come up who had written on his profile “keeping it zen”
and who was 36.
I said yes.

That man ended up being my now husband.

And, nearly a year after we met,
I was engaged and pregnant at 32.

As I look back at my story now, I can see
that life itself was leading me to the moment that I met Mike.

Because after I did, everything got better from there.
My business tripled.
My self-love grew even deeper as a result of his reflection
And, we had the most amazing little baby.

And as I sit here on Mother’s Day, filled with love
for this precious little soul,
I can’t help but think that it was HIM that was guiding me all along
so I could meet the man who was supposed to be his daddy.

I just know, when I look into my son’s eyes,
that we were meant to be family.

So, if you want to be a mom
but haven’t met the right man yet to create a family with,
I want to invite you to take a moment to connect.

Connect to the little baby that wants to come through you.
(whether it’s via pregnancy or adoption or maybe even stepkids)

Because my baby knew he was coming to me even before I did.
And, I’d be willing to bet that yours does too.

Let that desire to be a mom guide you
to open up and see how life is already trying to help you
find the right man to have a family with.

Are you paying attention?

Let that desire to be a mom guide you
to getting the support and help you need to heal
if there’s anything still in the way of you feeling fully worthy
of receiving and amazing man in your life and creating the family you dream of.

And, make finding your man not just about GETTING someone to love you,
but about creating the space to GIVE love
to that little baby who has already energetically said yes to you.

You know how they say shoot for the moon and you may hit the stars?

Go BIGGER in your love vision.
Connect to that beautiful little soul who’s meant to be yours
and you will be shown the path to meet the man who will lead you there.

But, when that path appears,
you must be brave enough to follow it.

Since that meditative moment
where my future spoke to me and let me know it was coming,
I was being guided by the soul that was meant to be my baby.

But, it wasn’t always easy to listen.

You see, I almost didn’t move to California,
which is where my man and father of my child was,
because I was scared.

I knew deep in my bones that I was done with NYC,
where I had lived my whole life
and that my man was in California
but I was stalling and stalling on moving because I was simply afraid
of leaving my comfort zone and everything I had known.

Can you imagine if I had let fear of change get in the way?

I almost cancelled the date with my now husband
because I had worked all day that Sunday
and I was tired.

Can you imagine if I had let working on my business and being busy
get in the way?

And, when the big love that is my husband got here,
I almost didn’t let him in
because 3 months after we met,
our egos got in the way
and we started to fight.

Thank God I had already learned HOW to love
and done the deep healing work before meeting him.

Can you imagine if I had let my ego get in the way?

I wouldn’t have what I have now.
A beautiful son that lights me up
and an incredible man who is such a loving dad.

So, if you’re sitting here on Mother’s Day
wanting to become a mom
and wanting to meet that man first
so you can start your family with him,
have hope.

Things can change faster than you think.
If you open up,
heal,
pay attention to the signs,
and let yourself be guided.

It’s very possible
that just like mine did,
your baby has already chosen you.

And he or she is just guiding you
to the exact teachers you need
to the exact experiences you need
and to the exact man that you need
to be ready to hold the BIG love
that your beautiful child will bring.

xo,
Nicole

PS: If you are a single mom, I bow to you.
I know you are doing the absolute best that you can for your little one(s) every day
and that it’s hard and that your heart is just so strong.
And, I am sending a prayer your way that you find the man
who can be that rock solid support system for you
so you don’t have to do it all on your own.

If you want to have kids but are facing fertility challenges
or questioning freezing your eggs,
I haven’t gone through that personally but I have friends who are
and I know that it’s hard to keep the faith.
I’m sending you lots of love and a prayer that your baby dreams do come true.

If your heart is heavy on mother’s day because you are facing recent loss
or still healing wounds from your own relationship with your mother,
I’m sending a prayer that your heart be healed to wholeness.

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They Couldn’t Believe He Said This To Me

This Sunday I spoke on a Success Panel
in front of 50 women entrepreneurs about my business journey.

And after the panel, two women came up to me
to, of course, talk about love
becasue isn’t it the truth that even for super driven women,
what matters most, at the end of the day,
really is LOVE.

These women were inspired by me sharing how I 
attracted in a man who is a perfect match for me
and who accepts me and loves me completely.

One is 67 and has yet to meet a man
that she didn’t feel she was settling for.

The other has a chronic habit of putting work before business
because deep down, she doesn’t believe she can have it all.

As I took their info into my phone to give them a ticket
to Manifest Your Man Live on May 6th (my 1 Day Event in San Diego)
they noticed my cracked iphone screen.

And I said jokingly “I’m the clumsiest person in the world
but actually, I have a story about that and love.”

And I told them that when I was with my ex who became abusive,
he would criticize me for my clumsiness A LOT.
He also told me that I was too messy and that I was lucky he was with me
becuase no man would want to be with me. (yes, that hurt).

However, I’m still just as clumsy and messy as I was then.

But, my Man Mike has a different take on this.

What he tells me is:
“Of COURSE you’re messy Nicole, you’re a creative genius.”

And when I shared that with them, their mouths just opened wide in shock
because they couldn’t believe that a man could be so supportive of his woman
to the point where even her “flaws” are celebrate and loved.

But, it’s true.
You can actually have a man who loves ALL of you
and who you don’t have to compromise at all to be with.

Here’s what I want you to know:

When you are (or have been with) the wrong man, 
you can feel it. 

It feels like criticism, not being heard, not getting your needs met,
feeling like you have to pull teeth to get him to give you attention
or a full commitment.

When you are with the right man,
you can feel it too. 

It feels like total appreciation, someone who lives to light you up and make you happy,
someone who cares deeply about you and your needs
and someone who always wants to spend time with you.

You deserve to be with the right man for you austin.

Love is the most important thing in the world.

Your romantic partner is who you spend your LIFE with.

So, why compromise on it? 

Especially when you actually CAN have what you want in a man.

Here’s what I want you to do now:

1) If you are with a great man, I invite you to take a moment today to
appreciate how blessed you are.
Write 3 gratitudes about him and when you see him next,
look him in the eyes and just share WHY you appreciate him so much.

2) If you aren’t I invite you to take a moment
to dream about what it would be like to be with a man who is PERFECT for you.
No settling.
But someone who meets you where you’re at and actually helps you go even higher.

Here’s why you don’t want to wait to find love:

I tripled my business when I met my man Mike.
We moved into an amazing home with an ocean view and are now
looking for a home to buy together.
We created a beautiful family and have the most adorable son.

EVERYTHING in your life gets better when you find the right man.

Don’t wait for your business to get better to create the love of your dreams.
Don’t wait for your job to change or your living situation or your weight or anything else.

Real love makes everything else better.

If I can help in any way,
to get you to that perfect match for you,
I would love to.

xo,
Nicole

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wise words from my man

Have you ever had a man REALLY see you?

Where he just values you so much,
is so proud of you
and cherishes you on such a deep level
that it’s obvious to everyone who sees the two of you together?

I can honestly say I never experienced that until my man Mike.

I had men love me before,
but never to this depth.
And it feels so good.

This Saturday, Mike introduced me to the 40+ women
at my Manifest Your Man Live Event
and his words rang so true.

He shared what it took for us to both get ready for EPIC LOVE.

It’s a 2 minute clip and I thought it might inspire you,
so I wanted to share it with you today.

I recorded it live in my Love Works Life facebook group,
so you’ll have to go there to view it.

CLICK HERE to watch the video now.

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Don’t settle for anything less than true, cherishing love austin.

As Mike says, you are here to experience DIVINE LOVE
in a romantic relationship
and it is possible for you.

xo,
Nicole

PS: Last year I ran an amazing f.ree challenge where I took women 
through the 7 Steps to Attract The One
that I used to draw in my man.

It ran for 7 days and then we took the videos down
but I was thinking, if enough women wanted to
(we had 1700 women participate last year)
that it would be fun to do the challenge again
and this time add in new content like Q&A videos.

Does that sound good to you?
 

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How to Attract A Man Who Meets Your Standards

Do you have a clear picture of the kind of man you’d like to be with?

He’s amazing, I’m sure.

But, do you think he’s TOO amazing?

Meaning, are you worried that maybe the reason you’re single
is because your standards are too high

and the type of man you want doesn’t exist
(or doesn’t want you)

If so, today’s Flirty Friday video is for you

In today’s video I share how to attract a man
who actually meets your standards.

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Click HERE to watch the video now.

xo,
Nicole

PS: My man Mike meets all of my standards and many women ask me how to meet a man like him.
The truth is, finding the right man isn’t about luck.
It’s about following very specific steps (the right steps) to bring him in
AND avoiding the wrong things that push the good guys away.

If you’d like to Find the Right Man for you
Click HERE to get on the phone with a member of my team
so they can lay out a step-by-step personalized plan
to find the right man.

(some of you might even get to hear from my Man himself, Mike, if you sign up!)
Spaces will book out FAST, so I recommend you sign up ASAP
if you’d like a spot)

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How to Never Feel Rejected Again When Dating

Rejection.

I don’t know many feelings that sting worse than that one.

And, so many women (and men)
end up dating, opening up their heart and then ultimately feeling rejected
when the person they want seems to not want them back.

Rejection sucks and I never want you to feel that way again.

And, in today’s Flirty Friday video,
I share a new way to think about rejection
that will allow you to let that feeling go AND also stop worrying
about letting guys down who you actually don’t want to date anymore.

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How to Lean Back and Let Men Pursue You (this is how it should be)

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You are worthy and deserving of love
right now
as you are.

You don’t have to change anything inherent
to who you are

in order to “win” love or make a man want you.

Attracting men isn’t about looking perfect,
being perfect
or doing and saying all the right things.

Those are just tactics.

The secret to getting men to pursue you
is to be able to lean back in your amazingness
while also demonstrating to them exactly why
you are such a great catch.

(so they want to date you)
As a Love Coach, I don’t believe in teaching women tactics
designed to change who you are to “catch a man”.
(that kind of stuff feels icky to me becasue it’s not based in love)

I believe in showing you how to own your power,
love who you are,
and draw in the right man for you.

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It’s not about doing the right things.
It’s about getting into the right state of BEING,
that is super attractive to your ideal man.

And, there are simple shifts that you can make right now
to amplify how attractive you ALREADY ARE 

to stand out to amazing men and make them want to ask you out.

3 Key Shifts, Specifically,
that I would LOVE to teach you
so you can attract in more and better men
(and attract the one).

On Thursday, April 13th, I’m hosting a webinar on
my 3-step Formula to Attract High-Quality Men with Ease.

On this webinar you will learn:

  • how to get into the right energy to attract the right men in and repel the wrong ones
  • how to amplify your own attractiveness (without having to change who you are)
  • the #1 magic ingredient to manifesting in your ideal man

This webinar will show you once and for all
that attracting in great men
is something you absolutely CAN do
AND that you don’t have to change who you are to do it.

CLICK HERE to grab your spot for the webinar now.

You can watch the webinar via video to view the slides and see me live
OR dial in via phone.

Either way, if you join me Thursday night,
what I share with you can literally land you a new date within a week.

How fun would that be?

CLICK HERE to learn how to be super attractive to ideal men.

xo,
Nicole

PS: Make sure to join me LIVE for this webinar because as always,
I will be offering awesome bonuses for the women who stay on live
including a f.ree gift of a product that normally retails on my website.

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Make Him Want You

If you are single and looking for love,
this is the most important thing that you need to know:
You can actually attract in any man you want, 
even if you’ve been single forever,
even if you’ve never been great with men,
even if you’ve never had a quality man want you before.

You can actually attract in any man you want.

If you don’t believe me,
then let me prove it to you this week.

You see, I used to think that only certain kinds of women could attract in great men.
Maybe you do too?

I believed that other special women
were great with men
and I just wasn’t
and there was nothing I could do about it.
Maybe you do too?

I was in a total man desert with NO ONE asking me out
or maybe just one or two random men but they were creepy losers.
Maybe you are too?

What changed the game for me was when I discovered
the magic secrets of attraction.

I learned that there were simple things that I could to
to make myself stand out to the right men
and repel the wrong men.

I used these 3 KEYS of attraction
to attract in better and better men
until I attracted in the RIGHT man, who is an absolute dream in every sense.

And what I know to be true with absolute certainty
is that ANY woman can increase how attractive she is to ideal men 
if she follows these 3 KEY steps.

On Thursday, April 13th at 5pm PST I am going to be sharing
my 3-Step Formula to attract in high-quality men
on a brand new webinar that you can watch or listen to
from the comfort of your own home.

(it will be the best 60 minutes you spend this week, I promise).
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I’d love for you to join me
so that you can attract your ideal man
and make him choose you.

Right now I have a 72 year old woman using this formula
to attract in dates and it’s working.
A woman who is super powerful and ambitious
and who used to think no man would want her because she’s so into her career
is using this formula to attract in more and better men.
Women are having exes or men who they really liked but who didn’t pursue come back,
out of the woodwork, and want to be with them when they use this 3 part formula.
In short, it WORKS.

And the best part is,
you don’t have to change anything about yourself
to make high-quality men want you. (really)

You just have to know the 3 step formula that I’m going to share on Thursday.
CLICK HERE to register now.

Xo,

Nicole

PS: I make a BOLD promise on this webinar 
which is that if you use what I teach,
you will have a man ask you out this week.
It’s that powerful.
So, don’t miss it!
CLICK HERE to register now to learn the 3 KEYS to attracting in high-quality men
and making them want you.

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How to Attract a Faithful (Non-Cheating) Man

Have you ever been cheated on?

I have and it HURTS. 

I’ll never forget the day I learned that an ex had cheated on me
not just with his ex wife but also with his ex girlfriend.
I felt crushed beyond repair.

But, today I have an EXTREMELY faithful man that I never ever ever
worry about because I know he is 100% committed to me.

How did I get here?

In today’s Flirty Friday Video I share:

  • how to spot a cheater
  • how to spot a faithful man
  • 4 things to do right now to attract in a faithful man
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Click  HERE to watch the video now.

If you’ve been cheated on (which most women unfortunately have) OR
worry about it, you don’t want to miss this video.

xo,
Nicole

PS: How exactly do you attract in high-quality men who are faithful?
You MAN-ifest them in. 

I didn’t attract in a truly faithful man by accident.  I 100% took specific steps
to bring him in AND I want to share those with you!

On Wednesday, April 12th I’m going to be sharing my 3-step formula 
to attract high-quality (non-cheating) men anytime, anywhere. 

CLICK HERE to join me.
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This 3 part PROVEN formula is exactly how I attracted in
such a committed, family-oriented man.

To attract in the RIGHT man for you, it starts with learning how to repel the bad men
and only attract in the good ones.

Click HERE to learn how to do that.

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How to Finally Feel Worthy of Love

I spent more than 20 years of my life feeling completely,
utterly unworthy of love.

I thought there was something wrong with me
but I could never quite figure out what it was.

And, when I felt unworthy of love,
my love life was a mess.

It wasn’t until I really filled myself up with love
and felt totally worthy, that I attracted my amazing man Mike in.

He tells me he loves me more times a day than I can count
and gives me more love than I ever knew was possible.

You can have that too once you feel WORTHY of love.

In today’s Flirty Friday video, I share 3 ways to feel worthy of love now.

CLICK HERE to watch the video now.

I also share a story about a moment that happened to me in the fifth grade
that I’ll never forget.

xo,
Nicole

PS: Have a question for Flirty Friday?
I’m answering more and more viewer questions in upcoming videos,
so CLICK HERE to submit yours!

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Are You Tolerating Being Single?

I’m at a business event right now and I heard a speaker say something that
really woke me up.

She said:
“There is something in our life that we are TOLERATING that we shouldn’t be”.

I heard that and I immediately thought of you austin.

Are you tolerating being single?
Are you tolerating living every single day of your life NOT having the one thing
that, deep down, you want most….love.

Maybe you want a family.
You KNOW in your heart that you are meant to be a mom.

And to do that, you need to meet your man.

But, you’ve been tolerating being single.

You have gotten used to living a life 
where you don’t have a plus one

where you spend weekends alone
where you finish a day of hard work
and don’t have anyone there to ask “how was your day babe?”.

I want you to stop tolerating being single austin.

Because once you stop tolerating not having love
and DECIDE to find the right man now, things can finally change.

When I FULLY COMMITTED to love, I met my man in 3 months.
WE got engaged 10 months after
and got pregnant with our beautiful son who is the other love of my life.

So in the span of less than 1 year, my life completely transformed
from single to having it all.

You don’t have to tolerate being single if you don’t want to.

If you are truly truly truly READY to meet the right man now
the one who is going to be your husband and father of your children,
I want to help you.

Here’s how:
1) Write down your #1 love goal on a piece of paper right now
(doing this starts activating the manifestation process of making it happen)

2) DECIDE if you are ready. 
Here’s how you know.  Ask yourself “am I ready and willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES
to find my man now?  Am I truly truly truly done with being single?

3) If your answer is YES then Click Here to book  a 20-minute
Find The Right Man Call with a Love Coach
to get a 3-step personalized plan to attract in your high-quality man now.
This is a f.ree call and the purpose is to help you see clearly
exactly what you need to do right now to meet your man this year.

I’m here to help you create epic love.

You don’t have to settle for a man that’s less than what you desire.
You don’t have to settle for less than you deserve.

And you certainly don’t have to tolerate being single.

You are meant for so much more than that.

xo,
Nicole

PS: The truth is if you are attracting in men that are not what you want
there is something missing in how you show up.

There is nothing wrong with you.  YOU are amazing and deserve great love.

However, how you’re actually showing up with men is probably not conveying that.

When you are in front of men, something is off that has you not attract the right man
OR it has them not choose you.

Let’s change that.

I’m the person you go to when you’ve tried other things.
When you realize that it’s NOT the men, it’s something in you that needs to shift.
When you are READY to do the deep internal work that is ACTUALLY
going to finally shift you into meeting your husband.

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Dealbreaker, Nonegotiable OR Too Picky?

If you’re looking for love, it’s very likely
that you’ve already made your list of what you want in your man.

But, how do you know which things on your list are real non-negotiables
and which things are you being “too picky”?.

In today’s Flirty Friday video I share an easy way to determine
which qualities are MUST-HAVES and which are nice-to-haves.
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CLICK HERE to watch the video now.

xo,
Nicole

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