I want to share something with you this morning.
There really is hope to still fall in love no matter what your love pattern has been that has kept you from true love in the past.
One of my clients was suffering through the everlasting pattern of not being able to get past 1 date with a man.
This had been going on for 2 years! Can you imagine? Maybe that’s you right now.
The thing is, my client is a BEAUTIFUL, intelligent, capable, amazing woman.
And still, no man wanted to date her.
She’s in her mid 30s and wanted marriage and a baby so as you can imagine, this pattern was devastating. She was starting to give up hope that the right man was out there for her.
Well, she decided to work with me privately, and we discovered that she was unknowingly putting off some really funky energy on dates that was having guys run the other way.
It didn’t really matter that my client is gorgeous…..men could feel insecurity, neediness and fear in her energy field, and that was repelling them.
We worked on this together and I gave her some simple tweaks so she could show up with attractive, sexy confident energy on dates.
And things shifted. Guys started asking her out on more than 1 date.
She stopped projecting a desperate ”please pick me!” “please validate me!” needy energy and instead she felt like SHE was the prize and that a man would be lucky to date her.
And, I’m thrilled to tell you that she met a guy she REALLY likes, and he asked her to be exclusive!
And guess what? He’s 40, never married, no children (they do exist), just a great guy who was waiting for that one special woman. And, he chose her.
Here’s why I’m telling you this: my client had almost given up on her love dream even though it’s the one thing she wants most.
But there wasn’t anything wrong with her and she wasn’t doomed in love, just like there’s nothing wrong with you.
She just needed to learn how to tweak her energy to show up as a confident woman that a man wants to choose.
If it’s possible for her, it’s possible for you too.
It’s not that there are no great men out there. And it’s not too late for you.
Often, it comes down to the fact that the way you are presenting yourself with men just isn’t working or connecting you with the right men.
And, that can be shifted. I can help you with that so you can find true love too.
I’m happy to spend 15 minutes with you to hear your love story and set you off on the right place.
I’ll help you pinpoint the specific tweaks you need to make in your energy to attract the right man.
Book time with me in my calendar now and let’s shift things for you so you can attract a great guy too.
It’s never to late to fall in love.
I just spent the past 3 days at an amazing event with 100 incredible women from across the globe who are committed to taking their businesses and lives higher.
And there’s ONE thing that I got, that has changed me forever. I want to share it with you.
It was when my mentor, Gina DeVee, the host of the event said, “You HAVE to put yourself in the game.”
Here’s what I got from that:
You have to want your dream more than you want your fears about it.
You have to stop wishing for what you want and take ACTION to get it, even if you’re scared.
The truth is, you can have what you want as quick as you are willing to drop your excuses as to why you can’t have it.
And, the sad truth about LOVE is that most people aren’t willing to do what it takes to have REAL love.
Most people aren’t willing to put themselves in the game of love.
Imagine a stadium. You’re sitting in the stands watching the players on the court. (they have real love)
All those other people in the stands with you? They’re your excuses.
Your fears, limiting beliefs and very logical sounding reasons why you can’t have the love that you want.
But, you can’t get the love you want by sitting in the stands.
You have to put yourself in the game. You have to get on the court and RISK your heart.
And yes, it IS scary. You could get hurt. You might “lose” All of those things you fear could happen if you go for love (rejection, abandonment, loss) might happen.
It seems safer to stay in the stands.
But the scariest thing of all is never going for it, because by doing that YOU are the one keeping yourself from the love that you really want.
The only way you can really lose is by not playing the game at all.
If you put yourself in the game and keep playing, and keep improving your skills (love is a skill), eventually you’ll win the game and reach your goal.
We all want to think that love is easy. But the truth is, REAL love requires a whole lot, and most people would rather sit in the stands and watch other people go for it, than have it.
Love requires you get over yourself.
Love requires you face your fears.
Love requires you to give up your image and be vulnerable.
The truth about love is that you have to CLAIM IT. And you claim it, by getting out of the stands and getting into the game.
Most people make the mistake of thinking that once they’re not afraid, THEN they will go for it. Once they feel safe and sure they wont get hurt, THEN they will take action.
But it doesn’t work that way. You have to risk to get the reward.
And the reward is sweet.
True Connection. Intimacy. Having a partner by your side that loves and adores the REAL you.
It’s what we’re here for.
This is your one precious life. If you don’t have the amazing love you want, what are you waiting for?
Why spend one more day without an incredible man by your side?
Why spend one more day not feeling the immense amount of love that is actually your birthright?
Here’s the truth: Those women that have the amazing relationships with amazing men. They’re not prettier, smarter, sexier or better than you.
They just decided to put themselves in the game.
They just decided that they would rather have love than have their reasons why not.
If you don’t have REAL love yet, it’s TIME to put yourself in the game.
Here is your opportunity to do that:
If you’re a woman who is tired of wishing for love and who is ready to put yourself in the game of love and get your goal, then book some time to speak with me privately to see if working together is the right fit.
I am currently working with clients privately, either in an Intensive 1 Day Private Love Coaching basis or in a 6 month private love coaching capacity.
Reply to this email and we can start the process.
REAL LOVE is worth it. And it’s what you’re here for. If you don’t have it yet, it’s time for you to CLAIM IT for yourself.
PS: You know what helps you “win” the game of love? A Love Coach.
With a Love Coach guiding you, you get to your goal quicker because I teach you the skills you need to master the game of love and win. When you want to quit, when your fears come up, I am by your side holding your love vision and gently guiding you there with love.
With a Love Coach mentoring you, you can’t not reach your love goal. Smart women who get in the game of love get the right support to ensure that they win.
If you are interested in being one of those women who has REAL love, and you’re willing to drop your excuses and get there, reply to this email and we’ll schedule a time to talk and see if working with me is the right fit for you.
Stop winging it in Love.
There’s a myth that somehow you should just know how to attract a healthy HAPPY relationship. You should just be able to do this whole love thing naturally. The challenge is most of us have come from some version of a dysfunction or broken household!
- Single Moms
- Or Passionless Parents!
Unless you’ve had a PERFECT role model of connection,
passion and LOVE then you probably don’t have a belief pattern
that will end up with a lasting relationship!
The truth is, Love is a SKILL.
We are all born with the ABILITY TO love, and we all DESERVE amazing love, but there’s an art to attracting Lasting Love that Works!
That knowledge isn’t something we’re just born with. It’s something we practice and cultivate.
So, if you’ve been beating yourself up or feeling like a failure in love, you can cut yourself some slack.
The truth is, no one taught you how to do love right.
If you don’t have what you want in love then you are operating with a love model that doesn’t work.
Either it’s your parent’s model, or some fear-based model that you created to protect yourself from experiencing pain (rejection, abandonment, loss etc) that actually keeps you from experiencing true love.
Since most women assume that they should just know how to do love right, they don’t take the time to learn the SKILL of love.
So here’s how you end up Heart Broken!
You go out into the dating world blind, without a plan and fumble your way through one bad experience after another, somehow hoping to land upon the perfect man, but never quite meeting him.
I call this WINGING IT in Love.
The thing is: It’s extremely DANGEROUS to WING IT in your love life.
Many women think that they should focus on making money, traveling or doing things to prepare themselves for when they get into a relationship. In the meanwhile they keep dating men that kill their confidence that they will never meet the right man!
You’ve got to stop this cycle!
Think about it. You wouldn’t just wing it in your business or your career, so why would you wing it in your love life.
You’ve got to work on it weekly if you want to get good at attracting men who cherish you and are strong enough to fight for you at the same time!
That’s like starting a business and wanting to get to 6 figures, but not taking the time to learn sales and marketing from an expert. It doesn’t matter how good your product is, if you don’t know the tools to market it, your business will fail.
Look, it doesn’t matter how amazing of a woman you are inside if you don’t have the tools (confidence, self-love, flirting, femininity) to make yourself stand out and be a magnet for a great man, you won’t get Mr. Right. (you want him to PICK YOU)
The good news is, love works when you have a model that works, and all you have to do is follow the plan.
In the training, I’ll give you my step-by-step plan to get to Mr. Right.
When you skill up in love, then it’s easy and you can attract the guy you really want.
To lasting love with the RIGHT man,
PS: If there’s some part of you that STILL thinks you should just be able to do this love thing, humbly let that go. Love is a skill and those who have rocking love lives have taken the time to actually master love.
If you’re seriously tired of winging it in your love life and want my help, you want an insurance policy that you’re going to follow through and actually get the love you want, then I invite you to book time with me now for a 20 minute Love Plan for Mr. Right Call.
It’s amazing what I can do with a smart woman like you in just 20 minutes to ensure that you reach your love results. (I have a limited number of spots available so only book time with me if you’re serious about changing your love life now)