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You Are Not Alone

You are not alone.

If love feels like a struggle for you right now, I want you to know that I get it. Really, I do.

The reason I’m a Love Coach isn’t because I’m perfect at love.

It’s actually because love was my area of the biggest struggle and the biggest pain.

I’ve been through it all in love:

I’ve been cheated on

I’ve been verbally abused

I’ve been a codependent, neurotic wreck in love

I have absolutely hated myself and wished I was anyone else but me

I have felt like the guys I like don’t like me

I have felt invisible to men and like no one asks me out

I’ve felt SO insecure around men and terrified to show my true self because of fear of abandonment

I’ve felt so unloved, so lonely, so alone

I even had to let go of the man I thought was “the one”.

So, I’m here to tell you that you are not alone.

And, there is so much hope for you.

What I know to be true is that if love has been your biggest struggle, it’s actually meant to be the place where you have the MOST good.

Yep, you’re actually meant for TRULY amazing love, better than you could ever imagine.

I know it because I lived it. I got to the other side. And you can too.

I’m no longer the woman who is struggling in love. And you don’t have to be either.

A completely turnaround in love is possible for you too….in fact, that’s what you’re meant for.

Today it feels like I can literally snap my fingers and get whatever I desire with men. It’s SO much fun!

Do you want that too?

Today, I am amazed at the QUALITY of men in my life, not just romantic but also the friends and colleagues and just amazing men that are loving me up.

Do you want that too?

Today I LOVE men and I feel irresistible to them.

I have power WITH men because I’m not afraid of men, or angry at men so I’m not trying to have power over them….so they just flow to me.

Do you want that too?

If you’re saying YES in your head that means it’s meant for you too.

So, how do you get there?

I will share the first step. It’s the most important one. And you can’t skip it.

Step one is:

You DECIDE that you ARE going to be the woman who has amazing love.

Yes, it’s really that simple.

Think back to a time when you really firmly decided something.

There’s so much power to a firm decision. When you truly decide, the universe moves for you to make it happen.

So, no matter how much you’ve struggled or been struggling in love, I invite you today to DECIDE that you WILL be the woman who has amazing love.

You will feel it in your bones if you truly do it.

There’s nothing that can stop a woman that’s truly decided she’s going to get what she wants.

You are so much more powerful than you think.

And there is so much more love available to you than you know.

You can absolutely have exactly what you desire in love, and even more.

And your area of biggest pain can become your area of the biggest joy.

That is what’s meant for you.

xo,

Nicole

PS: One you’ve DECIDED you’re going to have amazing love, your next logical question might be “well, HOW do I get it then now that I’m super clear I want it?”

You don’t have to worry about that. That’s where I come in. As a Love Coach, I guide you step by step and show you exactly HOW to manifest the love you desire, and the confidence and self-love too.

And, I only work with women who are TRULY ready for love. Because I know if you’ve DECIDED you want it, then I can absolutely 100 percent help you get there.

Are you READY for love?

If so, I invite you to schedule a complimentary 20 minute Ready for Love Discovery Call with me this week.

We’ll get clear on what’s blocking you from amazing love, and I’ll lay out my plan to get you there. We will discover if we’re a fit to work together, but either way you’ll leave the call with fresh insight to move your love life forward.

Remember, if you’re READY for love, I can help you get there, so book time with me if amazing love is truly what you want right now.

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How to Deal With Critical Parents (So They Don’t Harm Your Love Life)

Did your parents criticize you growing up?  Maybe they still do.

I grew up with critical parents, so I know first-hand how devastating the effect of being criticized by those who are supposed to love you most can be.

It hurts. We take it personally.  And that criticism can tend to wreak havoc on our love lives, even if the criticism happened years ago.

As kids we are super vulnerable and we just want to be loved.

When we receive criticism from our parents, it can set off a dangerous thought pattern that goes something like this:

They are supposed to love me unconditionally
Because they are criticizing me, they don’t love me
So, there must be something wrong with me
I must be unlovable

Ouch.  

Can you relate? 

The thing is, you can’t change how your parents treated you in the past.

And, your parents may never change, but your relationship to their love can

In fact, it MUST if you want to create happy, healthy love. 

It’s not enough to “know” they love you.  You HAVE TO FEEL IT on a deep level, in your bones.

Because until you FEEL on a deep level that your parents love you (or loved you if they are deceased), you’ll always be searching like a hungry ghost trying to find that missing love in someone else.

And your romantic partner can and should give you LOTS of love, but he can’t fill that space where your parents’ love should be.

And your parents cant either, actually.

The only one who can is YOU.

You see, how loved you feel by your parents has nothing to do with them.  It has to do with how you PERCEIVE the love that they gave you.

And you’re in control of that.  In this short video, I’m going to show you how to deal with critical parents and restore feeling loved by them.

This exercise will restore a feeling of love between you and your parents and set you free to attract and create healthy love with a partner who loves you up and treats you right.

You are loved. I promise.

xo,
Nicole

PS: After you try this exercise, comment below and let me know what shifted for you.  I would love to know how it helped.

It’s cliche, but “daddy issues” and “mommy issues” really do mess up your love life if they’re not handled.  Until you can heal on the inside, you continue to attract partners who mirror what went on with your parents.

You want to be FREE to create love by choice, not by default based on what you think you didn’t get from your parents or how you perceive they hurt you.

The truth underneath it all is love, and once you FEEL loved on a deep level, you are truly FREE to love.

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My Girl Crush – I Couldn’t Take My Eyes Off Her

I couldn’t take my eyes off her.

For two days straight I stared at this woman, enthralled.

She was beautiful, yes, but there was something more.

In a room full of 200 beautiful women, she stood out.   There was something special about her, and I had to find out more.

Who was this woman, and why did she have me so mesmerized?  

Her name is Janelle, and she was one of 10 S-Factor (pole dancing) teachers at an S-Factor Retreat that I attended in Palm Springs earlier this month.

And the thing that had me unable to peel my eyes away from her was that she was just so…present.

The purpose of the retreat was to reach a state of “Body Bliss”, being truly comfortable in your own body and letting your body guide you, not your mind.

Janelle had Body Bliss down.  Looking at her, I saw a sexy, confident woman, but more than that, I saw a beautiful creature.

She was so present in her body that she was almost like an animal.  All pure presence, emotion and instinct.

This is a woman who fully receives every bit of juicy goodness that’s available when you are fully present in your body.  And that is SO attractive

And the truth is, a woman who is truly in her body is the most attractive woman there is.

A woman in her body is trustable, because she is connected to her truth. 

A woman in her body is inherently sensual and sexual and free to follow the natural desires of her body. 

A woman in her body is a woman who can love deeply and receive deep love, because she’s connected to and ruled by her heart, not her mind. 

A woman in her body is confident, and she gets what she wants. 

In a world filled with neurotic women who live in their heads, the present woman stands out from the crowd and men flock to her.

Presence is one of my secrets to being irresistible to men.

But this experience of being irresistibly drawn to Janelle shook me up, in a good way.

Even after the retreat was over, I couldn’t get her out of my mind.

I was telling my friend David about her via text and what he told me stopped me in my tracks.

He said: “That woman you saw in class is what you are heading towards and that is why you couldn’t take your eyes off of her. I see that woman in the pictures you have on Facebook.”

Wow…it’s true.

I realized in that moment that what drew me so much to Janelle  was that she represents a future-potential for me that I have yet to fully actualize.

She represents the next step in my evolution as a woman.  Something that’s already within me, that other people are starting to see, but that I have yet to fully claim.

That animal-like state of pure presence is meant for me too.

I wasn’t hot for her….I was hot for the woman I knew I would become when I stepped up and claimed that piece in her that I so admired.

My girl crush on her was really me crushing on future-me.

And I’m the kind of woman that once I see something I want, I go after it full-force.

I’m allergic to not actualizing my full potential…knowing that Janelle’s got something that I want, that is actually TOTALLY available to me has me fired up, and I decided i won’t stop until I get it.

So, I signed up and committed to weekly pole dancing class.  I also signed up for the 5-day S-Factor retreat in Hawaii next year.

Because I know that if I want what she has, I’ve gotta do what she does.

Is it a serious investment? Yes, it is.  But I’m committed. AND, I’m totally worth it.

One of the reasons I’ve grown so quickly is because anytime I’ve seen a woman who has what I want, I’ve gotten close to her.

I’ve worked with her and learned her secrets so I could have them too.

So, which woman have you been admiring lately?

Is there any woman you’ve been crushing on and thinking “I want what she has?”.

The truth is, what she has, and even better, is meant for you too, and all you have to do is step up and claim it and then commit to actualizing that potential in yourself. 

It’s possible that if you’re reading this, or if you’ve been following me on Facebook, there might even be something that I have that you want too:

  • Confidence
  • Sexiness
  • Being irresistible to Men
  • Magnetism
  • Self-Love
  • Power

These are qualities that I’ve consciously cultivated in myself, and if any of them lights you up, it’s because you’re meant to shine in those areas too.

But whether it’s me, or some other woman who has what you want, you won’t get what she has by just wanting it.

You’ll get what she has by doing what she did to get there…by learning her secrets, her thought patterns, and the actions that worked for her, and then doing that too.

So, if you’ve been following me here and wanting a piece of what I’ve got, I would be happy to set you up with some of the steps and actions that I took to get here…to be a woman who is sexy, confident, attractive and super magnetic to great men.

If you’re interested in coming a little closer to me and learning my secrets, I invite you to go ahead and book time in my calendar with me now for a complimentary 20 minute Love Clarity Call.

Whatever piece it is that you are wanting to claim (sexiness, confidence with men, attracting the right men, flirting) I’ll give you my strategy to get there.

So you won’t be crushing anymore on someone else, but living fully as the beautiful version of the woman you are MEANT to be…the woman that has the love she wants.

Go ahead and click here to book your time to speak with me personally.

xo,

Nicole

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